When I get an email and makes a reply to it, the format is always,

"Hey 'Whoever'
On 2008-07-14 You wrote:
Whole received message"

And below that I can write my reply. But people that I reply to finds it very annoying to have to scroll down and search for what I've written as a reply. Now, is there a way to change the settings so that my reply-message is on top of the message? I believe that is automatically adjusted in Outlook?
I know where the setting to change this is located, but I don't know how to configure it right.